Not in your wedding!



    In every woman’s soul is a little girl, which dreams herself wearing her white bride dress next to her chosen one. Everything must be flawless; the place, the decorations, music, food and drinks,the cake and of course the bride and the groom themselves. But what happens when the happy couple starts becoming too agitated, too proud of themselves or too emotional. Oh! well than their perfect wedding might become their worst nightmare.

   Unfortunately, lately I see or hear from friends about these huge mistakes that the groom and the bride commit in their wedding day and transform it from a wedding about which everyone will have nice memories into one which will be widely criticized.

  Everything starts before the big event and because everyone seems happy for you let them help with the preparations. It will be fun and way more easy that to do it all by yourself, but don’t release your anger and stress on the ones that are doing their best to help you, that if you still want them in your wedding of course. Choose everything as you wish to be but listen to the advice of others also …you won’t lose anything after all. Don’t leave any detail to be solved in the last-minute, instead take a break few days before the wedding and relax with your friends or family. One night before the big event try to sleep at least 8 hours so that your mind, face and body will be relaxed and shinning.

  You’ve prepared everything and the moment has come now it is your great day when your dreams will come true, lives will change forever and two persons will become as one. But still be careful at some aspects as for example talking, greeting, thanking all of your guests, don’t forget that they are making you an honor by participating at this unique event in your life and they should be treated with respect and attention.

  Then neither the bride nor the groom should run like crazy for anything pending or any misunderstanding occurred, just ask someone who you trust to supervise and handle everything. After all you are a prince and a princess for one day and royalties aren’t under no circumstance graceless and tact. Enjoy your wedding and make your guests enjoy it too since you are just once bride and groom for the first time and hopefully the only time.

 With all these being said I wish all of you that are not yet married  and read this post to have your dream wedding and a happy life next to your chosen one.


5 responses »

  1. no wedding…no headache …just bride nd groom nd 2 persons to confirn…that simple..nd more cheap…money can be invested in something more usefull 😉

    • I agree with you … too much money in spent on weddings and I wonder who really enjoys them. For example, I have been to many Chinese weddings in Malaysia … very grand affairs with several months’ salaries gone into making these elaborate weddings happen. And frankly, as a guest, I never enjoyed them. Dinner served late, boring powerpoint presentations showing the couple growing up and meeting each other, no entertainment whatsoever, and the couple going round the tables making everyone make a toast to them. And weddings are usually very stressful affairs. So what’s the point of having them??? I think a small affair would make sense; having only people who matter present at the wedding and TURN IT INTO A PARTY!! Make sure people have fun; after all, some of them have come from a great distance and put in a lot of time and expense coming to the wedding. The couple owes it to these people to make sure they have a good time!!!

      • I totally agree with small wedding only with people that you know very well without the son of the brother of the mother of my cousin that the couple never saw before and never will again after the wedding.Better less and good quality people so that everyone will enjoy that special moment.

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